I agree. Growing up in the 90s, my mum made all the meals. Knew what meal to prepare each day and still had a career as an aeronautical engineer. I figure she and my dad had a deal about the meals in the house or maybe my dad just let my mum handle that aspect. Who knows? But the truth is, it's kinda like a tug and pull situation. The more she hammered on the "what do you wanna have for dinner tomorrow" nail, the more the guy lost interest. There are no rule books to this thing, let's just be more opened is all.